Essays
Long-form pieces on my own hard calls and on other founders' documented decisions: what they knew, what they chose, what happened.
2026
- You Don't Need AI Teammates
AI teammates are microservices again. Buy the outcome, not the org chart.
- The 5 Jobs of Humans
Five jobs AI cannot take from you, and how I got back in the game.
- And Then You Say LFG
Kalanick is back. What his return says about founders who never stopped.
- Team Over Product
What investors actually back at the earliest stage: you, not the product.
- 13 Years Bootstrapped, Then $22M
AppSignal bootstrapped for 13 years, then took $22M. Why the math changed.
- How To Be Contrarian And Right
LLMs reopened markets VCs had written off. How to be contrarian and right.
- Just Build It
The founder who made me sign an NDA over lunch. Nobody steals ideas.
2025
- Be Ambitious
A Charleston team was told to aim small. Why the ceiling is the point.
- Nobody Will Notice
Build for recognition and it twists every call nobody sees.
- Try Again
After the failure, nobody answers who you become. You will it.
- Astronomer's Response is a Masterclass
Three keys to crisis PR, and how Astronomer changed the conversation.
- You Have To Be Delusional
Leaving SF showed me how much ambition is set by your zip code.
- Saying No to $3 Billion
Windsurf walked away from a $3B OpenAI deal. What it cost the team.
- The Billionaire Founder Who Sacrificed Everything
Durov gave up his company, his country, and his freedom of movement.
- Pushing Boulders Uphill
My first startup fell apart. What Sisyphus gets wrong about the boulder.
- Dog Catches Car
The exit you chase for years, and the hangover once you catch it.
- Fake Customers & Investor Lawsuits
11x allegedly inflated ARR and invented customers. The tell founders miss.
- Don't Be A Helicopter Founder
The well-meant founder habit that quietly wrecks a capable team.
- When to Start Hiring
When to pull the trigger on your first hires, and who comes first.
- Why You Should Charge Users Early
Charging early proves more than demand. The second reason matters more.
- When to Ignore Your Growth Rate
The one situation where growth rate is the wrong number to watch.
2024
- Who Should be the CEO?
The LEAD framework for picking a CEO when the answer is not obvious.
- Should Founders Follow Trends?
Five kinds of trend, and which ones are worth building a company on.
- Why Adam Renklint Raised $137M... and Gave it Back
Pitch raised $137M and gave it back. How Renklint changed course.
- There's No Room for Ego In Software
Arc killed a working product at a $550M valuation. Ego is the real cost.
- Don't Force a Fundraise
When to stop raising and treat the rejections as the answer.
- Can Founders Lie?
Graham versus Sacks on Zenefits, and where optimism becomes a lie.
- How to Decide Whether to Raise Money or Not
The three ways to build, and how I worked the call for Megaphone.
- 8 Common Mistakes When Choosing a Co-Founder
Cofounder conflict kills 65% of startups. Eight mistakes to avoid upfront.
- Communication is a Sign of Dysfunction
The Oilers power play works because they do not need to talk.
- The Hardest Thing for Founders To Be Comfortable With
Being comfortable looking cringe is an underrated founder weapon.
- Pros & Cons of Transparency
How transparent to be with your team, and what a leak actually costs.
- Opinionated Cultures
Opinionated cultures win the way politicians do: inspire the base.
- Be in the Details
In the details is not micromanaging. Chesky, Jobs and the difference.
2023
- What Founders Should Do in a Crisis
What the OpenAI weekend taught about leading through a real crisis.
- Always Repeat Yourself
Bezos said customer centric a thousand times. Repeat yourself.
- The Risk Of Accepting A High Valuation
Taking the higher valuation can cost you the round after it.
- 6 Signs You Should Fire Someone
You are waiting too long. Six signs the decision is already made.
- Building in Public vs. Building in Stealth
Build in public or in stealth, and how to take the best of both.
- Pathological Customers
Raise prices to lose the customers who were never yours.
- 6 Sacrifices Founders Shouldn't (But Do) Make
Six things founders give up that they should have kept.
- The 6 Tradeoffs Founders Have To Make
The six tradeoffs every founder makes, learned inside Uber and Airbnb.
- Don't Build a Zombie
Five paths worth exploring before you accept a down round.
- Your Most Important Decision As A Founder
Going all in is the most personal and most strategic call you make.
- When You Should (and Shouldn't) Split Equity Evenly
Only 41% split evenly. When an uneven split is the right call.
- How Much Equity Should Founders Give To Early Employees?
What to offer your first employees, and how to negotiate it.
- How Much Should Founders Pay Themselves?
What founders actually pay themselves, and what it does to runway.
- I Left My Startup This Week
Why I left the company I founded, and eight other reasons founders go.